Sometimes children have difficulty saying goodbye to Mom or Dad and making the transition to preschool.  You may see tears as you arrive at school or when it is time for you to leave.  There are several ways parents and teachers can help.

• Have a very positive attitude.  If you are anxious, don’t speak of it in front of your child.  Remember, school is a great place!
• Visit the school before the first day, more than once if possible.  Let you child get acquainted with the teachers and surroundings.
• Ask your child (when you’re not near the school) what (s)he is looking forward to doing next time (s)he’s there.
• When it’s time to go, be quick and don’t vacillate.  You can check in by phone in a short while to see how your little one is doing.
• We’ll give your child a soft landing!  A lap, some tissues, a soothing voice and then a distraction, for example, playing with a toy or being a helper.
• We give children plenty of notice and information about what comes next, and provide a hand to hold during transitions.
• We speak to the children in a tender and yet engaging way and provide activities to engage them as well, keeping them focused.
• At the end of the day we can remind your child of the things (s)he did and enjoyed that day and ask what (s)he’d like to do next time.